Three things:
1. I'm glad you love this school and do as much as you can to bring others into the fold. I hope you never stop. Lord knows we need as many as we can find.
2. In the same post that you claim to be about supporting our student athletes you feel the need to back handedly criticize and demean the career/accomplishments of one of our recent high profile family members. There were plenty of remarks as to the level of effort that particular player(legitimate or not) gave under Johnny, but somehow a team down two of its best players came together and made it to it's conference tournament final. Did he live up to the lofty hype put upon his shoulders during his time at out school? No. Outside of Rodger Franklin did any player on his team's performance improve from JJ's last to Benny's first season? No. I guess you can blame said player for not only his own, but the rest of his team's lack of progression if you like. Be that your prerogative, I sure don't know what you think coaches are there for.
3. It's wonderful that you can afford to give at the level that you choose to do so. It's even more wonderful that you're able to recruit friends that can afford to give at a similar level. I can't. I don't have any friends to recruit that can. Odds are I probably won't ever. Maybe I read your post wrong and I'm way off base, but the assertion that people being negative, while not afforded an insiders view of college athletics, is every bit as silly as the argument that you can't talk about it if you haven't played it.
Again, maybe I'm way off base, maybe I've interpreted it all wrong, but this post read every bit as much condescending/offensive as the one you were apologizing for.